Don’t ever put your happiness in someone else’s hands. They’ll drop it. They’ll drop it everytime.
One For Sorrow, C.Barzak (via bl-ossomed)
Learn how to be
lonely. Learn what it’s like to know
that you are coming home to
yourself night after night—
that empty is just another word
for open.
Kristina Haynes, from The Love Not Poem (via violentwavesofemotion)
Get comfortable with being alone. It will empower you.
(via cocoablush)
You fucked up, and I said sorry.
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Be proud of yourself for how hard you’re trying.
mhconsumer (via mhconsumer)
You can do 99 things for someone and all they’ll remember is the one thing you didn’t do.
Unknown (via life-neverdied)
If you let anger into your heart, it will push out your ability to love.
Bree Despain, The Lost Saint  (via humanseoul)
I stopped crying because I didn’t lose you. You lost me.
(via difficult)
It is a mark of maturity when someone hurts you, and you try to understand them.
Such an underrated truth. (via pursuitofbeing)
Just focus on you.
(via soulsscrawl)
Be with a guy who still opens the car door for you even when he’s mad at you.

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So many notes but this is my life

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This is important

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افتح فمك فقط إن كان ما ستقوله أجمل من الصمت
Open your mouth only if what you are going to say is more beautiful than silence.
Arabic Proverb  (via bl-ossomed)
You have to accept that some people are not made for deep conversations, or for holding you together when you’re about to fall apart, or for keeping you from unzipping your skin, or for talking you out of suicide, or to love you through the worst moments of your life. Some people are made for shallow exchanges, and ridiculous banter, and nothing more. And that’s okay. That doesn’t make them horrible people because they simply aren’t able to handle a storm like you. It doesn’t make you a bad person because you won’t divulge all the gritty details of your horror show. It makes you smart. You have to accept that there will be people that cannot give you what you need. It doesn’t mean they are not worth keeping in your life. You just have to figure out who these ones are before you’re disappointed. And you have to keep them at arm’s length. You cannot expect everyone in your life to understand, to be nonjudgmental, to get it. But that’s okay, because not everyone was made to impart wisdom, or wax-poetic, or speak on politics and the depravity of society, or discuss how crucial it is that the stigma of mental illness be abolished. There are times when you have to get away from all that heaviness. You have to. And you will need superficial conversation about Kim Kardashian’s arse, or a debate on the colour of The Dress. You will need those ones. So don’t go round cutting people off and dropping your friends. You need people for all your seasons. You need people or you won’t survive this.
What my therapist told me this morning (via crushed-bythe-heaviness-of-air)